Life: The Good the Bad the Ugly

Hey Everyone! I know I’ve taken a break from writing but now I feel the urge to pull the pen out and jot somethings down. So stay tuned for my post. Please Comment, Share, and Subscribe.

I’ve titled this post”Life, The Good the Bad and the Ugly because simply that is just what life seems to give you on your journey. Everyday isn’t going to be full of sunshine and flowers. You will cry. You will bleed and you will move on. I realize one major thing about life. It is simply going to move with you or without. So why not stay in the game? Yes, you got fouled and maybe scraped an elbow, but did it kill you? Are your injuries until death?

The Bad & Ugly

I’ve realized that we must continue to move on in this thing called life. We can’t spend months of being mad over something that could have been solved with a phone call or text. Life isn’t promised. You never know when your time might be up. Yes… I get it they hurt our feelings and wronged us but guess what… That’s not going to be the last person that hurts our feelings. Here this… the reason why are feelings do get hurt is because we are all different. We don’t think the same or hurt the same. So it’s bound to happens o just let it go and keep moving on. You’re not alway going to win and get it on the first try but that doesn’t mean to not try again or to try something different.

The Good

Life is Precious and fragile so we should live on Purpose. Don’t waste time wasting time. Everyday you should learn something different. Experience something different. Life is full of surprises but if you’re boxed in to just one type of way of doing something or boxed in to just really not knowing anything further than your boundary then you have really dismissed yourself from the good of life. I myself started doing things different this year. I’ve started by picking new places to eat, trying different foods and even going to cities and places I’ve never been.

If you’re reading this we have all been given this gift of life and you can choose how big you want it to grow or how small. I encourage you to break the limits off of it and Live big. So don’t forget to laugh, live, love and Enjoy the Good Life!

 

 

Will you Connect the Dots?

I’ve been puzzled on this thought for some time and now I’m just going to lay it out on paper and let you hear my insight.

I’ve always been the kind of person that stuck to a certain method or wasn’t really open to trying something new. Kind of like the 5 year old who says no to eating broccoli or any green vegetable. They don’t know the importance of it, but all they know is that it doesn’t taste sweet like a snack. So they rule out everything associated in that category and call it nasty. Even as adults we are the same way. Where does this come from? I’m glad you ask me. Most of it is a sense of “fear”. If you’ve never went golfing but say that you don’t like to do it, How would you ever know that you don’t like it? If you’ve never been to a concert but you say you don’t like crowds and think they’re overrated, how would you really know that you don’t like Concerts?

We must begin to connect the dots in our Life. Connecting the dot means living through and going through it. We have to remember to enjoy life to the fullest. Don’t be afraid to try it even if you have negative thoughts about it, you might even learn to like it, once you’re in the moment of it.

If we don’t connect the Dots, we will become dull, boring, and dried up LOL

No honestly, there’s so much more to life than what we think. If we could see pass our down falls and the things that we are going through and actually find some type of Joy around it, then we could discover and continue to learn about ourselves and the world around us.

A couple of weeks ago, I decided to go for a bike ride. I usually go with a friend but they were unavailable. So going on this bike ride for me was a test. I wanted to take the trail by my house, so I did just that. While on the trail, I looked to my left, and seen this body of water out of no where. So I slowed down and turned around. I found an opening and walked my bike through. There it was, I was only 5 mins. away from my house and discovered this piece of land and water. It was a park, but just not any park. It was breath taking and quiet! I’ve never looked at nature (God’s creation) in a peaceful way like this. There was even a bench in front of the lake. So i set down and listened to what was around me. It was so refreshing. if I had I never got up the courage up to ride my bike alone, this moment would have never happened. So will you connect the dots given to you?

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Love is Like a Muscle

             Something that has been on my heart lately is Love. Everyone desires it and seeks it. I’ve come to conclusion that Love should get pass the levels of the verbal recognition of “I Love You”. Usually, when you develop a level of trust for someone, you’ve actually gain some type of Love. Think about it… Love is like a muscle… If you flexed your bicep you could easily see the muscle… just as if I said I love you, you sense there’s some type of love there but it doesn’t stops there. Love is like a muscle… the harder you work those muscles, the more those muscles and veins peek out and show. Just as Love, the more you love someone, the more you want to show it. You push forward the verbal “I Love you” to the visual form of Love…

1.buying random gifts

2. sending random cards

3. random dates

4.a just because surprises on the job

                              Flex your muscles and show some real Love Today

STEP OFF THE MERRY-GO-ROUND

Have you ever found yourself waking up everyday and doing that same old routine?

Whether it’s getting up, heading to your 9 to 5 and repeating the same thing over and over! I’ve come to realization that before you know it 10 years has dissolved and yet that one dream that you had in mind you never get to do or it just continues to get pushed and pushed back. I’m challenging myself for the rest of the month to reach and grab those dreams and goals that I’ve set up but put off. Most of us who are on our 9 to 5 are not in the place of our destiny but were doing it because it pays the bills and keeps some coins in our pockets. I just believe that God did not give us all of the talents and creativities to sit down on but yet these gifts could actually make room for us. Take time out and work the Gift within you. Step off your Merry -Go- Round of boredom… Step off Your Merry-Go Round of Defeat… Step off your Merry- Go- Round and Live. Tell yourself today…. I will step off the Merry Go Round and do some things different…. Step on to the Rollercoaster and see how high it takes you… Yes, you might have some falls (failures) but learn from them and keep going. That’s the one thing about a rollercoaster, it keeps going. I challenge you, Step Off!

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